She is looking at a pile of old journals. She finds some of her reflections from the time she had lost her son:
"I'm looking for a poem
to dress myself with,
to cover the private parts of my pain.
Poems there are many,
but poets,
very few.
I lost mine.
So I pile the poems
that are scattered around
trying to find him
to no avail.
Time dilutes the memories.
The good ones.
The sad ones.
Until all it is left
is my dried-up soul."
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"When I lost my son
I lost my solitude
I'm surrounded by his death
All the time.
I want to be alone
to remember him
but all my memories
are blurred by the big
sad stain of his death.
When I lost my son
I lost all my friends.
Most of them don't
want to be stained
by his death.
The dear, dear ones
I can't bear their emotions
any longer.
If they are happy
it seems so frivolous,
if they are sad
it seems so frivolous.
"Tell me about the son you lost?"
Oh! You didn't lose any. How would you know then?
When I lost my son
I lost all my wishes
my future doesn't make sense,
because my son will never be present.
I lost my companion
in long chats at night
in phone calls
filled with intelligent conversations.
I lost an important reference"
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"I wish I could have embraced you at the time of your greatest suffering, but all I can do is submit myself to a similar suffering, living on the verge of hopelessness and death.
My desire is that when I get to that critical moment, I'll see you and we will embrace each other"
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At this point, she stops thinking. She knows that there won't be such a moment. Her children are gone and there will be no embrace, no permanence.